It is a shame it doesnt explore it better, think its problem is it mixes in some vaid criticisms with some unhealthy attitudes, and doesnt do enough to really disentagle and comment on them. Men feeling alienated is fine (though obviously the focus on just men, particularly an office worker who really has it better than most is a bit off), attributing it to capitalist society is fine. But it doesnt just do that, part of the men’s problem in it is also their percieved emasculation, which they resist through embracing ‘traditional’ masulinity through violence, in a men only setting. It doesnt blame women for this more just modern consumerist society, but you can understand how weird men who blame feminism for their problems could see that in the film. I guess also the treatment of Marla reflects the attitudes to women of the characters, I dont think it intends to endorese those attitudes, arguably the whole point of the film is that he shouldnt have been trying to live out some ridiculous male violent fantasy but should have connected with marla but went the wrong way every time, but as his initial disatisfaction with the world is kind of valid it kind of tacitly endoreses him generally.
They cross the line when they start blowing things up and meatloaf dies. I think at that point it is trying to say this group is bad, they saw problems in the world but have gone about a solution which is also bad, but while earlier in the film their embrace of traditional masculinity is celebrated, when it goes wrong it doesnt seem to link it to that, that these silly men’s violent fantasies have got way out of hand as a direct result of these weird attitudes and values, it seems to be more about his mental decline. then when the buildings blow up at the end and give his movement a surprisng win, it is a weird happy ending moment which really does muddle what it is trying to say.
I know the term snowflake has been co-opted and gone through meaning changes since, but there is still something very Jordan Peterson about it in the film.
in conclusion, fight club has some good stuff, has some bad stuff, easy to see how people see even worse stuff