Thanks UP.
There’s peaks and troughs. He just came into me and just cuddled me silently for the last fifteen minutes (thankfully I was on a conference call where I didn’t have to say too much!).
Grommets are mixed - his hearing is definitely improved, and one ear has cleared up already, although the other appears to be weeping a little bit - hopefully it’s not infected, but I think it’s too early to say. Adenoids are linked closely to tonsils, but reading around recovery is quicker for adenoids.