I think ours is okay, maybe?
We have direct debits going out for as much as we can at the beginning of the month (mortgage, utility bills, internet), plus we have a bit that gets set aside for savings.
Having a routine really helps - we now know how much we spend on our food shopping and transport every month, and meal planning and batch cooking keeps the former down, plus I’m planning on working up to commuting in to work by bike three out of five days a week, and running home on the two other, which should make a big difference after the initial expenditure.
Neither of us drink a lot, either at home or out in pubs - we’d much rather go out for a meal or the cinema or the theatre, a couple of times a month instead - often that’s local, so no more than £10 a head, which we can afford.
We don’t really keep a spreadsheet of regular expenditure, but we do have one for all the works to the house, as those are often one-off large sums.