My older sister has gone full Daily Mail lately. I don’t know where it came from, as she used to be nice.
I’ve had medical problems this year, and was on and off sick leave earlier this year, stuck at home and feeling pretty gloomy and broke, and she had the cheek to say to me “oh it must be nice to be ill, I’d love to be ill and not have to go to work” and “I don’t think you deserve to get any benefits, it’s all just scrounging” while boasting about how she’s going on an expensive holiday. She has a reasonably well paid job (as does her partner), and owns a house, yet felt hard done and like I was cheating her somehow by the fact that I was getting measly statutory sick pay and just about managing to pay the rent on a shared flat with no living room.
Needless to say, our relationship is definitely not the same any more.