If you are giving someone a deadline for something do you
- Give them the actual deadline
- Give them a fake earlier deadline
Just asking as I get given a lot of fake early deadlines, which fucks me off as I might have to - rush the work / turn down other work / mess up my social life to reach deadlines which I later find out are total bullshit - so when I have to give a deadline to someone I tend to treat them like an adult and actually give the real deadline (as that is what I would like) and then I am eternally let down by other people missing the deadline (so would have been better to just give a fake early deadline)
Do people just assume that any given deadline is not real?