Yep! Most of my life situation is through choice, and it’s a comfortable life I’m very lucky to have. I have the ‘why is my life so out of phase with everybody else’s?’ thing with friends too, but that’s mostly to do with kids and whatnot, and if I’m being horribly honest with myself, a tiny bit of resentment that they all have their spouses and happy families etc and I’ve had to start again. Not proud of myself when I get annoyed that way, and obviously nobody’s life is all roses and sunbeams, but I do sometimes feel like I’ve fallen off the world and everybody’s carried on without me 