I decided about a year ago to have a big clear out and have had a pretty positive experience overall but yeah definitely a few weirdos. I think you just have to accept it.
Weirdly the very first enquiry I got was one of the strangest. I’d put some stuff up that I genuinely had never played more than once because they were just not my thing. Got an enquiry for about half a dozen of these from a Greek guy saying he already had these in VG+ condition so they must be NM. I wrote back really politely giving info on each record, offering to send photo’s etc. He came back saying I needed to examine them under Led light and loads of other guff. so I wrote back and said ‘ok, it sounds like you need to inspect these in person so I don’t want to risk disappointing you’. At which point he wrote a really aggressive email saying I musn’t cancel his order because its against the terms & conditions of the site.
Whole thing was really weird.
I’ve had 2 or 3 other pretty weird ones as well. But it really is the exception, I think it just pays to er on the side of caution on the grading and yeah package everything well so that people are happy they receive a nice package. When I but stuff from discogs it does make your heart sink when stuff turns up in a pizza box (happened twice to me!).
I was kind of amazed at the stuff I sold (even a few CD singles!) so I’ve always treated it as a bonus and that I hope people enjoy the records.
Edit: I mentioned his nationality as I do think English as a second language can sometimes have a bit of an impact on the tone of some messages. I’ve had a couple of people who came across as really aggressive in their initial messages and I don’t think it was deliberate.