why does it have to be those two extremes though? Doesn’t have to be ‘omg are you ok’ or ‘hahaha’ but more of just a non event. (Or whatever works for the couples involved, it’s not like there’s a right or wrong way here)
I also obviously am not necessarily saying everyone should just run around farting here, but just that making it taboo (especially in the context of a comfortable relationship) seems odd.