I went away for my birthday last year for the first time and that was my only day off from work on my birthday day. It was pretty good.

But other than an actual holiday, I judge people who take their birthday off work. They’re in the same category as the birthday week-ers. I also judge people EVEN MORE if they make their bf or gf take the day off for their birthday.

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My birthday normally falls around the same time as the jazz festival here so I tend to celebrate it that weekend. GF is insisting I take it off this year so we can do something nice. I don’t see the point but if we have a nice day together that’s fine

:grimacing::grimacing::grimacing:

My GF is one of these people. Why she does it I do not know.

people who have a birthday week are obviously sub-human scum but what’s wrong with having a day off on your birthday to have a lie-in/go for some nice food somewhere/sit around in your pants all day?

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Bit babyish innit

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Started going away for birthdays which is good because you can pretend it’s not happening can’t you

If I was at home then I would treat the day as normal and go to work, might eat a donut or something I suppose

On Mrs F’s birthday we usually do cards and presents, then I make her eggs Florentine for breakfast, then we spend the day at Kew Gardens looking at plants and drinking wine and beer before coming home for a meal out. What’s wrong with that?

[And now my beeveometer sparks into life…]

also people who enjoy going to work are the worst.

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The actual, actual worst.

From where I’m sitting, for the most part life’s a bit shit, or average if you’re lucky. Your birthday, as arbitrary as it is being based on the length of time it takes a big rock to orbit around a burning mass of nuclear gases, is a great excuse to put all that aside and have a bit of a celebration, and to find a bit of happiness for yourself outside of worrying about brexit, or trump, or paying the mortgage, or whether the cat’s eating enough.

I shall be taking my birthday off and enjoying it :slight_smile:

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I don’t really celebrate birthdays much any more - no real presents, parties, etc - but i do always book it off just so i can have a proper lie-in. Until a few months ago i was up at 5am five or six days a week so it was a nice treat. We were always allowed our birthdays off school as kids.

I’d struggle to magic up an argument that any day spent relaxing and doing your own thing instead of carrying out mundane paid duties for tories is a negative thing rather than a positive. It’s probably the sort of churlish thing i’d have tried pulling a few years ago, but we’ve all grown up now haven’t we…?

To be honest, i don’t like long holidays. I don’t know how people go away for fortnights at a time. I get really homesick after a few days. For me 4-5 days is optimum time for a holiday, so i’d prefer to use my holidays to book, say, Wednesday-Friday off three or four times a year and have a couple of domestic and a couple of trips abroad and then use any other days here and there.

Last year i used most of my holidays finishing early over the summer (so a 7-1 instead of a 7-4, but still on full pay) and spent my afternoons exercising, sunbathing, reading, cooking properly, etc, and a few weeks of doing that was miles more beneficial than a week abroad every six months.

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Going to work on yr bday =/= enjoying going to work, fyi

agreed. Just wanted to add to @meowington’s beeve hunt.

or it’s a nice counterpoint to the other 364 days of misery? meat, shovel, grave etc

With regards to people enjoying work, i’m a bit split, as for me the daily routine, social side and mental exercise of working’s pretty good for me, guess most of us, but then the stress of work and impact on my physical health on a day-to-day basis probably counter that.

I always snigger at the ides of, say, winning the lottery and still working, but at the same time know i’d struggle if i literally had to do nothing.

If your employer offered you your full salary for sitting at home doing nothing, would you…

  • Do nothing
  • Still go in

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Same scenario, but 50% of your salary and you’re not allowed to find another job…

  • Do nothing
  • Still go in

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depends on what exactly you mean by “do nothing”

Voting ‘still go in’ on the second scenario because I’m presuming I’d get 100% of my salary for going in and I couldn’t survive with a 50% pay cut.

There’s always way to amuse yourself, if you’ve got a decent enough hobby. Teach yourself photography, learn an instrument, work your way through your local library one Dewey decimal point at a time. I don’t need work to fill my time.

As in, workwise.

OK then my answers stand. I could easily survive on 50% of my salary and would jump at a chance to do it.