My friend, early 30s, married with 3 kids said she wasn’t sure if she’d had an orgasm…
I said that means you haven’t because you’d definitely know if you’d had one!
She said she feels ‘a rising pleasure but she doesn’t scream or pant like they do in films’
So I said, well do you have times when you don’t get the rising pleasure and times when you do? And she said she gets it every time!
I said, does it reach a peak and she said kind of but nothing that would make her really noisy!
I wasn’t sure whether she’d had one or not so I just left it there.
But my question is, if you’d had an orgasm do you think you’d definitely know that what you’d had was an orgasm?