CW: shit adolescence / homophobia
Because they were both bullies in their own way. My dad psychologically (pressuring me into doing stuff that he’d approve of) and my brother (beating me up; intimidation, etc). When I started going out with my first girlfriend, my brother’s words of ‘encouragement’ to me were ‘oh. Good. I always assumed you were a faggot’
They’ve apologised for how were and I’ve tried to move on but yeah, teenage CCB wasn’t happy.