Interesting twist in the tale:
The buyer paid for the item but then said they did it accidentally and asked for a refund. Interestingly this seems to have close my unpaid item case which means I’ll no longer be able to claim back the fees. I refunded them the money for the item anyway but I’ll probably have to lodge a case with ebay this point since it doesn’t appear that I’m able to cancel the transaction since it’s still registered as paid
Can’t help but wonder if this was deliberate and if so, got to give them props at this point since they’ve essentially managed to not pay for the item and extricate themselves of any consequences.