I just don’t understand it. I know they can be tricky and god knows I struggle myself but they’re job is hair, it drives me mad how having curls makes me feel like some sort of enigma.
I’ve had them defuse my hair with no product on and constantly raking at it with their fingers. I look like an extra from an 80s music video, or the other end of the spectrum, like someone’s granny. And I’ll say, oh no, it won’t work if you do x y z and they’re so confident I’m wrong!
I do the same as you - dry it straight, or leave it wet (which is the great thing about mobile hairdressers as you can instantly dry it yourself once they’ve gone)