Yeah, I mean my parents both left school at 16 with a couple of O-levels and donât have a clue about all the maze of qualifications and careers. They let me do what I wanted as long as they didnât think it was completely stupid.
My dad did a few different basic jobs then got an apprenticeship where he was sent on day release and to evening classes to get a qualification while working, and then worked for the same company his entire life.
My mum did admin jobs, and then got other admin jobs off the back of having done previous admin jobs.
Both of them are/were horrified at the level of hoops you have to jump through now, and all the things employers demand. I remember my dad being appalled that sometimes Iâd go to interviews, and not even get the courtesy of being told I hadnât got it. Ghosted by a job interview. Often ones where you had to do significant prep and a presentation.
My mum has been trying to forward me job listings to apply for since Iâve been out of work, and sheâs appalled at how much theyâre asking for, and how little things pay.