Hello I’d like to hear about what sexy films, tv, books, podcasts etc you’ve been enjoying recently.
I’d like to add a new sex podcast to my ranks, I’ve tried lots but only ever enjoyed Sex With Strangers:
It’s so good, the host manages to have conversations with such a wide variety of races, sexualities, kinks, genders etc, it’s always interesting. Particularly enjoyed the Mormons and Amish episodes. The newest episode is 2.5 hours long so might not be the best place to start, but it’s fun.
Rewatched Bound recently which is, in my opinion, one of the sexiest films of all time in a way that is also interesting and worthy of analysis as opposed to just being “phwoar” base-level stuff.
The Wachowski’s (pre-transition at this stage) filming a lesbian sex-scene that is consciously and deliberately trying to avoid male-gaze is really fascinating. They hired a feminist sex consultant to assist with the scene and provide input throughout etc (think she appears in the film as well as a cameo)
I have had great, fun sex with people I’ve just met but I think sex with someone you’ve gotten to know a bit and have some fondness for as well as fancy will always be better. Just feel like if you have spent more time talking about what you’re into and what you want to do to each other you’ll both know how to turn each other on and please each other + would feel more comfortable being kinkier with
Also, I enjoy the build up and sexual tension is sexy.
I agree. But I also find meeting someone, banging them and being mutually fine with never seeing each other again and getting on with your lives hot as fuck.