Going to the theatre followed by food on a sort of date tonight and my pal has invited herself along and has now asked if her pal (some guy I’ve never met) can also meet us after the play. I said it was ok but now feeling really fucking anxious.

  • Tell the pal I’m feeling anxious about the whole thing
  • It’ll be fine

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Any particular reason for the anxiety, do you think?

Just having to deal with someone new I guess, especially as I was looking forward to an evening with just me and the sort-of-date. Not really in the mood for putting a different face on.

I don’t see any problem with telling your pal that, TBH. It’s your weekend, them tagging along isn’t really fair on you or your dateish

hey the bowl where we keep all the apples is empty

fruit scone

Great joke dad :+1:

thank s

Thanks bud. Have told them :grimacing:

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What number date is this?

10 I think :worried: They are mostly only sort-of-dates though as we said we’d be better as friends after the third date but since then we’ve got a lot closer and flantier and maybe something would happen if one of us made a move but we’re both too afraid/shy?

Should really see how she feels now as me seeing our friendship as potential romance isn’t a good thing is it? I do really enjoy being friends with her but do feel I’m a little bit in love with her :frowning_face: (this should be in the love life thread)

Ohhh rightttttt.
Well I don’t think bring mates along to any kind of date is really setting it in the date category…it’s more in the mate category so I’d defo be swerving the friend thing.

I think you might need to make the move! I’m assuming you haven’t kissed/held hands etc since the 3rd date?

You assume correctly. My pal isn’t coming to eat with us anymore so will have more of a chance of making a move later on or at least telling her how I feel. Gonna guzzle so much wine meow.

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Good luck!

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Cheers noo!

Had to do that reverse cap thing to protect my neck /wu

Just ate too many raspberries and blueberries and now I feel a bit sick

  • No drinks
  • Drink this evening
  • Drink tomorrow evening
  • Drink both evenings

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It’s a bit warm for a Horlicks. What’ve you got?