So it was my friends birthday recently, and on Sunday I got round to giving her her present. I’m a tragic gift buyer, so I thought I’d default to lots of little bits, some which I bought and some which I just had in my house unopened that I thought she’d like. We’re talking a couple of face masks, some herbal tea, a soap, some chocolates etc.
She did like it, but it started a hilarious conversation about the concept of gifting someone with just random stuff you find lying around. Apparently it’s a quote from friends too although different content.
So?
I often gift people crap I find on the street
All my gifts are painstakingly thought through and often some exclusive thing that’s really unique
I love buying presents! Particularly for people I know really well. I keep a couple of lists, personalised ones and generic ones which I add to all year round. Since me and my friends have got older and my wife’s side of the family have stopped buying for adults I miss having so many people to buy for. My wallet doesn’t which I suppose is the good part.
I don’t see any problem with gifting little bits and pieces though, sometimes those are the best ones!
When in my last (I say last, it wasn’t, but the most palpable) manic state a few years ago I found a Doris lessing book in the street, and it had a letter inside from about 2004. I was convinced the author of said letter was speaking to me… It was all so relatable, like “stay strong my dear friend, all of this will be OK”.