depends. if they can’t make the wedding but want to show the love, fair
context here is the wedding is abroad, and the day after we return from holiday…
How far in advance have you known the date of the wedding?
After we’d booked the holiday
Sounds reasonable not to go. You’re not the best man are you?
Dunno why there’d be a problem with this, tbh.
Totally fine then.
Or the groom?
(no, not the best man)
MAYBE send a present along in your place
thanks marckee. I’ll link 'em to this thread if needs be
Worst, if anything
oh sure, will be doing so.
Are you just hoping for a shout out in the absent friends toast or something?
ooo, I hadn’t thought of that!!!
(don’t you have to be dead/incarcerated to count though?)
you’re totally covered then. a couple pals did the same for my wedding (no gifts but cards and came to stag) and i’m really really glad they did.
one guy however turned out to be a total cunt a year after my wedding. and i invited him on the stag! and to my damn wedding! despite not knowing him for long but wanting to include him as an all round good seeming guy!
so i mean don’t do that. IF YOU’RE READING THIS GO FUCK YOURSELF BUDDY
Dunno mate, I wasn’t there
when do you get out of the slammer dude?
I did a shout out to a missing couple who were giving birth literally at the time of the ceremony