I just don’t have emotional investment in the characters anymore, because the writing has been so bad for so long. And the writing of this episode wasn’t strong enough to stand on it’s own feet - it needs you to love these characters.
Felt like an episode of Parks and Rec in one of the later 3-4 seasons, where the entire storyline depends on you being emotionally invested in the characters being happy (and also having settled heteronormative boring existences)