A man tried to congratulate my male friend who is the booking agent at the venue for a gig I put on. My friend explained it was his night off and he was just there as a punter, and tried to introduce me. The older man just refused to believe that I was somehow responsible and told my male friend to “not be so modest”.
Also the exact words an old boss would use when he would congratulate my male coworker for things I had done, and the co-worker would try to explain I had done it, not him. Wonder why I quit that job.