Fair enough, I don’t think the Miley incident is bad to be honest. Politely declining a request to meet someone, whilst disappointing for them, isn’t rude really.
The other incidents don’t cast him in particucarly great light though and there does seem to be consistencies in them. Being rude sometimes isn’t the worst crime in the world though.
The image of an apparently genteel Howard Devoto approaching Thom in a museum, and being loud and frightening, has tickled me though.