Yeah, fair, maybe not in this particular incident. Just to me at least, it was a behaviour firmly routed in ladz bantz type behaviour 20 odd years ago.
I think maybe there is also a lot of behaviours which are learnt when we are of school age which are then hard to unpick for many years later, no matter how we identify ourselves.
Also, “incredibly self obsessed and oblivious to other people” = LAD 