those of you that have them, did you always want kids? did you get to a certain age then want them?
i’m 27 and i really really really can’t see a situation where i’d want to have kids. the world is going to shit and i’d rather have more time for and more money for me. i have no problem with anyone else having kids obviously, and even if i did there’s no way we can stop people having kids anyway (population growth being unsustainable is probably a whole new thread)
i really love the idea of being a positive influence on a childs life but i’d much rather it was mates kids or (in future i assume) my sisters kids