Had breakfast with an old friend who was pondering why she might not be fully into the guy she’s dating and it was familiar enough a reason: “he’s 34 but doesn’t have his shit together.”
Earns well enough to save, but no savings account or savings of any sort indeed, largely from partying/holidays. Doesn’t see the problem.
So does/would this matter to you, DiS, if you met someone your age who was similar? It’s a depends isn’t it? But him being 34 for some reason makes it feel like a more legit concern mebbe. Idk. Your thoughts, hive mind.