Do these people’s parents wait on them hand and foot til the minute they leave home, and never show them how to do the simplest household things?

presumably

My parents pretty much did everything for me (I did the laundry, cleared the table and sometimes emptied the dishwasher but got away without doing much else) but surely most people pick things up through…just…being alive?

clearly this is not the case

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I equally loathe and love these threads because of the utterly ridiculous anecdotes. However, it baffles me that people of this calibre even exist- let alone have enough brain cells to get to uni. They must have never had to lift a finger from the ages of 0-18. Bizarre. Infuriates me that parents almost enable this braindead behaviour.

My kid is gonna be doing the washing up aged 2

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Girls I lived with in the first year were terrible. Two of had live-in grandmothers at home who would not let any of the kids lift a finger. The other came from Monaco, so yeah was used to actual servants. None of them had ever had a part time job or ever done anything in the house.

None of them had a clue, and didn’t want me to use the washing machine because they “didn’t want to pay any bills”. They thought that constantly buying new clothes to replace the dirty ones was a reasonable solution, even when I worked in a restaurant with a uniform. I took great delight in spiting them by doing basic things like laundry.

They also had a bbq when I was away, and just left the remains of food, and buggered off to a festival. I was really not pleased to come back to a kitchen full of rotting meat, esp as a vegetarian.

My dad did (still does) all the cooking but luckily I got a kitchen job when I was in sixth form otherwise I probably wouldn’t have been able to cook more than pasta and boiled eggs when I got to uni

up the chimneys by 5

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I think that’s ok. If they’ve been proper incompetent ungrateful pricks incapable of living like adults, why are you obliged to do them a favour and be their mummy? Problem is you will just live in squalor with people like this. Squalor.

I miss halls

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God knows what his thinking was!

I actually quite liked sharing a room with someone because we became (and still are) very good friends. But for pretty much every other room it ended up being a car crash.

In my block they grouped each floor by gender. First floor was all men, the second and third were all women. The reason for males being on the first floor was because they would be better able to “deal with” people braking in, and you know what, there were a couple of times people did try to break in.

The upper floors had fewer double rooms so it was almost even in terms of gender. Problem is, that if there’s one thing 18 year old boys like to do, it’s masturbate. But there’s no privacy to do it because they were all in shared rooms. So a lot the boys on the first floor would ask to use the communal shower cubicles on the 2nd and 3rd floors, and say that the 1st floor shower was occupied. The boys then proceeded to masturbate in those showers, often hiding porn mags within their towels as they walked in. Those showers were almost in constant use. They promised to never masturbate on the bottom floor, but once I walked in and a lad had forgotten to lock it. Horrific.

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Yup, Rude Dog knows the score. Justified behaviour. I used to do this with toilet rolls after I realised our constantly cold/hayfever suffering housemate would take rolls to wipe his nose.

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Me and one of my housemates do ALL the washing up when we get round to it. The other one just does the items he remembers using.
UNACCEPTABLE.

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Thing is, you always lose, because their behaviour annoys you and your behaviour’s either unknown of funny to them. You can’t win being petty.

Unless you resort to disgusting pranks.

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In my flat in London we used to have a rota, so that each week one of us did all the washing up. Was ok, but one of my flatmates (there were 4 of us) just could not clean a dish to save his life. Like, there would literally be chunks of food on things after he finished “cleaning” them. So whenever it was his week nothing would be properly clean and we all just ended up having to clean everything before using it. For this and other reasons we stopped the rota system after a while but obvs we’d still have to clean everything he had “cleaned” before using it.

Dead against rotas anyway, if someone can’t deal with judging if it’s time to do the washing up - or worse still are so against basic human conversation they need to live their lives according to (and sometimes referencing) a sheet of paper, they can find someone else to live with.
Just tell the lad to scrub harder.

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wahey

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There’s no need for rotas if you’re not a complete shit head.

Washing up: when you’ve used something
Kitchen surfaces: after you’ve cooked/prepared stuff.

If you can’t manage that you shouldn’t be classed as an adult

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Rotas are firmly for Fresher’s who don’t know how to live, talk to each other, or really even get on. Nobody else.

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