Depends on the plans I had for the next day.

Your housemate’s gf/bf is staying over 4 nights a week minimum. They do their own laundry in the house. They live with their parents so the couple do not stay there. They are making no financial contribution to the household.

  • Ask for a financial contribution to the household. It’s only fair.
  • Quietly seethe and post online polls

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If I thought I’d make great friends for life out of it I’d go see what’s going on.

What I do now is make sure I have a clean set of crockery and cutlery in my room at all times so I can order takeaways and take them straight to my room without having to go via the kitchen.

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If they stay over more than twice a week they’re technically a housemate, imho.

I wish I had a mini fridge for my room too.

Takeaways:

  • Strictly to be eaten in bed
  • Eat in communal dining area
  • Eat in living room

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Depwnds… if she is cooking, I really hate cooking at the same time as her (we get in each other’s way) so I’ve been known to slope upstairs and eat some granola for dinner instead. If she’s there just getting a snack or lurking, I’ll happily chat.

oooof neck and neck this one

Monitoring housemate’s bathroom habits

  • Fine
  • Come on mate, bit weird

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Past and present housemates:

  • Have generally got on well with them and enjoyed their company around the house
  • Don’t even know their names m9

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have lived with about 40 altogether and got on well with about 6 of those. current lot are alright though
also about 6 that i wouldn’t even recognise if I met them now

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depends. haven’t had the pleasure of living with a good friend in ages but still been in pretty friendly living situations with people i know for the last few years, so it’s all good.

in between i had a brief spell in a couple of houseshares with strangers and i was very socially anxious around them, spent a lot of time in my room, tried to avoid being in the kitchen/living room with them too much.

one house i lived in for 3 months, i eventually made a point of hanging around the living room with them, got on fairly well and it became a nicer place to live after that to be fair, sort of regretted leaving it so long. then moved to another house with no living room, everyone seemed a very disparate bunch of room dwellers, no one really talked to anyone. definitely put me on edge. thankfully was only there for a month.

With the excpetion of the very odd older person whose, for example, partner might have passed away etc, would anybody choose to live in a houseshare beyond the age of about thirty? I dunno.

I live in one because it’s a lot cheaper, but then to some degree i probably would miss someone else knocking about, as much as my tolerence for other people is virtually nil. The thought of living alone seems less preferable than living with strange people for me, or even a partner, idk.

how many non family members have you lived with in your life

  • none
  • 1-4
  • 5-10
  • 10-20
  • 20-30
  • 30-40
  • 40-50
  • more than 50

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some overlap between these intervals oops cba fixing it

20, plus however many were in this house

(think i spoke to 2 ever, for less than a minute each)

lived with 10 other people in halls so got a bit of a head start

18, not including first year halls, it’d be 24/25 I think if it is

i’d count halls on the basis that i lived with them

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I forgot half of them and it doesn’t feel real to me, not like a proper house