I think I’m pretty articulate but as the years have rolled on since ~30 my ability to remember particular words is getting worse and worse.
I find myself Googling meanings to find the specific apt word I want to use in just a post on here for example.
Feel pretty bad about people getting shat on for using nice words, though.
I grew up with various parts of my family being quite specific about my speaking but I’ve also spent my life being very guarded about how I say things. Used to get called ‘posh’ at school because my accent was so flat and crisp compared to other Londoners thanks to my parents not being Londoners.
So that meant I spent a lot of time glottal-stopping and stuff to try to make it less bad (still was pretty clear I wasn’t proper local working class of course).
I also learned in my teens that people find other people’s specific interests really dull unless they are interested in them. It led me to be quite guarded talking about stuff, e.g. geeky things or chiming in with stuff I know without qualifying it with “I reckon maybe,” or “It’s possible that,” types of phrasing, in order to avoid sounding didactic (there’s a word I hate using but I can’t really think of a good non-upper vocab version) or like I think I’m better than someone because I know something they don’t.
As a result when meeting new people socially you’d probably find my chat escalates in both specifics and also word use as I get a measure for the expectations of who I’m talking to, over the course of an evening.
I still do have a habit of using stupid words like ‘dour’ (pronounced correctly as do-er) when there are just as good, more popular words around.