ok that is bad
IIRC they were quite publicly debunked by someone who, in the process, revealed him to be exactly as sleazy as one would expect a 90s rock star to be, but importantly very consensually. Something to do with specific backstage passes for groupies.
The whole thing was quite unpleasant but entirely consensual and still nothing on the shit that, say, David Bowie, gets an inexplicable pass for.