#81

I was more insinuating that ghosting, only being out for sex and other destructive behaviours that occur very commonly on apps like Tinder shouldn’t convince users that that is what is to be expected.

#82

That’s a very valid point, just think that maybe

could have been worded a little more tactfully.

#83

Think it isn’t that much of a leap to read it that way, you said you decided to make a change and that it’s not too late for anyone implying others can do the same, but others issues might be different from yours, and in the context where you came into this thread in slight disbelief that people hadn’t been in a relationship and said it’s a shame and that people should just give it a try, it did come across that way

#84

Well I’m sorry if anyone read it the wrong way, and took a few days to speak up about it. I’m a stranger on this forum, maybe I’ll think twice before getting involved any more.

#85

You were insinuating that not having a relationship is a better state of being and that single people should ashamed for not having one. You just did it again in this post as well.

E: I only spoke up now cause I only properly read this thread today btw

#86

For myself. And that someone who has convinced themselves without ever trying otherwise may be missing out and that’s a shame.

#87

I’m not sure why you’re assuming that we’ve never tried

#88

I’m not sure why you are assuming it’s too late.

#89

Anyone who’s ever been on a date is a tory

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#90

So there!

#92

Reckon I get between one and zero app notifications a week. Just don’t really bother engaging with them anymore

#93

Maybe I will be one day, maybe I won’t. I dunno what the future’s gonna bring. I do know that if I am in a relationship it doesn’t bring my life more value than if I’m single.

You’re explicitly saying that people in a relationship are better off. It’s a bullshit societal expectation that is harmful to people who are single and quite frankly, it’s none of your business what anyone else’s relationship status is.

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#94

Just spotted a guy on an app whose “I’ll get along with you if…” section reads “you get on board the banter bus”.

His “I wont shut up about…” is simply “seo”

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#96

CONGRATULATIONS!

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#97

Hot af

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#98

Thought I’d shut that account down, drat

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#99

listing harry potter, tea, gin and coffee as interests are instant passes for me.

think i’ve got a real attitude problem tbh.

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#100

Now we’re getting back on track

#101

A: so… how about we talk more… at my place?

B: about meta tags? sure. I was just about to get onto alt attributes

A: cheque please

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#102

My website could do with some work tbh

All aboard the banter bus! Ding ding!

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