#7

Sounds rough man. Lack of contact/loneliness drives anyone insane. Been there. Join us in the depression thread if you ever want to talk about shit. From minor slumps to full blown breakdowns its always welcoming and never judgy. I’ve always found it a good place to open up about things How’s your depression?

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#8

Bimm has an awful reputation locally for the bands it produces. They mostly sound alike and as you say very souless. I accidentally went to the Bimm Stage during Great Escape one year and I did an audible sign, heard the band playing for 10 seconds and went back out in the rain. I hear its got great teacher but all the bands deffo sound like they’ve studied a curriculum and will not stray away from it.

#9

Imagine what it was like staffing the rehearsal studio there.

I also remember chatting to one of the lecturers who had his head in his hands after he’d done a class with some 19-20 year old students and used the Velvet Underground as an example and every single student had been like “huh? Who? Never heard of them”. Not even one has heard the name before, let alone the music.

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#10

Got a couple of old friends in Brighton. From what I hear the music scene is pretty diverse. I live in Basingstoke which ain’t too far, so it could be worth a shot going to some open events at the music colleges up there. Thanks for the response I really appreciate it.

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#11

I guess because at least in the UK, art colleges insist on you being creative and exploring things, not just walking you through a bunch of drawing and Adobe tutorials to get you to reach a certain level of competence. (There are art colleges like that in other countries though)

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#12

There is a diverse music scene, a lot of collectives who are very welcoming as well. Its actually quite easy to accidentally ‘fall into a band’ in Brighton especially at your age as a lot of people in their 20s (relatively) who live in Brighton play instruments.

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#13

Yeah that stale sound was the kind of thing I experienced in the lame colleges in my hometown. The band I was with were friends from school and I was the only one studying music. I vibe on creativity so I stuck out a bit as the oddball with the kind of music I was making. Not sure i want to go through that again. It seems like these days much of the highly praised music colleges do churn out sessioners rather than artists. On top of that I play psychedelic alternative kind of stuff mostly so it’s harder to find fellow musicians I can jam with.

#14

Dear lord xD

#15

There are A LOT of psychedelic musicians in Brighton

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#16

Oh yeah Basingstoke is pretty dull.

Years ago (2004 I think) I went to see Gorky’s and Yo La Tengo do a double bill in the theatre in the shopping centre there. I was at university in Reading at the time, and could easily have gone to the London date.

My friend didn’t believe me though when I said they were also playing Basingstoke. So I bought us tickets and got her to come.

At the gig there were hardly any young people there. It was full of older couples who must have been Friends of the Theatre or something. They seemed to find the whole thing really confusing, especially when Gorky’s kept switching between English and Welsh. I overheard one older man saying in the interval (proper theatre interval with drink booking) “well he can certainly sing, but I don’t see why he has to be so scruffy” about Euros Childs.

#17

Thanks for the recommendation. I’ll check it out some time man.

#18

I reckon just moving somewhere like Brighton or Bristol where there will be like-minded people and people are friendly and it’s not as stressful as London and getting a job would work out just as well as going to the music college.

Glasgow would prob be good too, but a much longer way away/more cultural differences to get used to.

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#19

There’s no decent music venues in Basingstoke. I mostly go to London or up North for gigs. Plenty of drum and bass 15 y/o chavs about though :roll_eyes:

#20

A close friend I met when I was living in Reading comes from a village halfway between Reading and Basingstoke. Not once in the nearly fifteen years I have known her have I ever heard her mention going to Basingstoke for anything.

#21

Southampton isn’t too far away, gets some alright bands on. Same in Portsmouth. And bigger gigs in Bournemouth. All easily accessible by train from Basingstoke. Even the railway in Winchester does ok. And, as you say, not too far from London, 45 mins on the train.

But, yeah, Basingstoke, yeesh.

#22

I don’t have a huge amount of advice: the only two things that spring to mind are (a) to see if there’s any Prince’s Trust activity round your way and (b) if there’s a ‘youth foyer’ or something similar so you’re getting a bit of stability and mentoring with the life management / substance/etc stuff that’s going on. In Cambridge there are internships at a local music venue that I’ve known some people to enjoy… It’s not as direct an answer as you may have liked!

You seem genuine and I wish you all the best :slight_smile:

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#23

It’s a shame accommodation is more of a Uni thing or I guess EU/US thing? UK doesn’t seem to have dorms for many colleges that you can study music at. Maybe I just didn’t look hard enough but balancing a job and college with a place by myself in a flat where I’d have to play music at a reasonable level could get hairy real fast… I think a friend of mine is looking to move to Brighton in the new year and I have another friend who wanted to move out and share a flat. Will just have to inquire about these things over time, but these friends aren’t very reliable people in general so living on my own seems like the only option. Other people manage just fine but I’m not exactly a model citizen lol. I barely do anything these days let alone full time college and full time job and being in a band… will be hard to manage I expect. It’s probably what’s been keeping me from trying to move away.

#24

Thank you! Any advice is appreciated. I’m on Universal Credit for some basic income (not recommended haha) They give bad career advice too… so I will do a search for something similar to what you described.

#25

*part time job

is what I meant

#26

sanctuary is pretty good, saw fvnerals there the other month, think it is closing down though, but the people who run it hinted at new ventures so maybe they will open another one