A very good friend of mine dropped the P word on me a few years ago. We were taking our kids to the park, where he noted “I probably shouldn’t say this, but there’s loads of P…s in this park.” I was massively taken aback, and could only manage “No, you shouldn’t really say that”.
He was mildly apologetic in that way of wishing he hadn’t said it in front of me, rather than wishing he hadn’t said it because it’s wrong. I’d known him 5 years before this and knew he was a proper Yorkshire guy, with some fairly Yorkshire opinions on everywhere that isn’t Yorkshire, but it was still a total shock. I think of it every time I see him, which is fairly often as in all other respects he’s an absolutely great guy. Apart from, you know, the horrendous racism.
This was before Brexit when I found out seemingly half the country thinks like that.