Cryin’ by Aerosmith just came up on shuffle while I’m sat here working from home, and I was singing along when one of our “cool” neighbours* walked past the window.
Not that I should care about what they think, but there is something about them thinking “Look at that man in his late 30s on his computer singing along to Aerosmith” that doesn’t sit well with me. I shouldn’t care, but a little part of me does.
Do you care?
Yes
No
A little bit
A fair bit actually
More than I’d like to admit
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*this is based on the music that they play which bleeds through the walls. Many times I actually think “Huh, I think we could have a good chat about music” but that’d be weird because it’s based on my voyeuristic listening, and they have tons of friends already anyway.
Absolutely not. Used to be far too hung up on this and then just decided that I really don’t give a hoot, I’m having a nice time and that’s all that matters.
In general, I agree, and I care far less about it than I used to, but then moments like this happen and I realise I do still care a little, even if I don’t want to.
Also weird how I care about a total stranger in real life, but more than happy to share the fact that I’m singing along to cheesy Aerosmith on a board full of judgemental music nerds.
Someone unselfconsciously singing along to music they love is a wonderful thing. The song doesn’t matter.
Also quite weird when people offer judgements on your music. You know chances are if I’m listening to an album I own I like it, you thinking it’s shit is irrelevant.
It doesn’t bother me, but then i find it exhausting when you say you don’t like something, and people automatically assume you trying to be cool or contrary or whatever. Why is it so hard to believe someone doesn’t like something? Like, The National really aren’t very good.
Remember once picking up a colleague from work (one not versed in the finer points of 21st century hip-hop) with Good Kid Mad City blasting at high volume. She was moderately astounded. Think she was expecting Coldplay or Kings of Leon.