Ah, that’s a sad story Bam. I hope when you’re in the right frame of mind it’s something that brings you some comforting recollection of your friend.
Is A Woman is such a beautiful, delicate record and I think pre-dates that Kozelek meta style of writing by a good few years. The Old Matchbook Trick does it so well - a simple, straightforward narration about being in a touring band that somehow becomes really wistful and moving.