Really? When I refused they just asked for a guarantor…

absolute tossers.

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The landlord doesn’t think plumbers work during weekends. This is going to be really grim.

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inspection today. i left loads of washing up in the sink and the front bit on one of the drawers on the bedroom dresser has fallen off…

I sanded, filled, primed/undercoated and painted (two coats) a front door quite recently. Materials cost about £35. Took about five hours (you’d use water-based paints on an exterior door). It’s an unreasonable charge in any case. Especially unreasonable if they’re repainting it themselves. In my experience these kind of landlords would employ a general handyman on a low-wage rather than a proper decorator. If it was the latter £100-£125 wouldn’t be extortionate for labour on a job like that. I’d have been tempted to fill it in with a black marker or small pot of acrylic touch-up paint.

so we passed inspection or whatever and they’ve laid on another 3 viewings per day running into next week. i figure this inspection was motivated by people not taking the flat. i did some sleuthing and it turns out the interior shots they’re using for our flat on the property sites are of some ultra sleek modern apartment that is god knows where. maybe that’s why people aren’t keen on signing a lease, because you’re false advertising, you pricks.

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Just had to move out of my place at extremely short notice as my landlord (who lives in the property) has been showing signs of psychosis. He became convinced I was keeping a woman in my room, despite the fact I had never let any guests into the house ever. Last Sunday I was laying on my bed reading a book and he came into the room asking where ‘the lassie’ is, at which point I lost my rag a bit and told him to look under the bed, in the wardrobe, but he wasn’t interested.

Last weekend he also started accused me of letting people into the house at four in the morning, saying that he was hearing voices. I very rarely get up in the night and I am certainly not coming and going at anything past 11pm. One of the most bizarre incidents was when he blamed me for there apparently being human hair on the outside of the kitchen windowsill (i.e. the outdoors bit)??? He once complained to me that there was hair on the carpet… when the house is shared between four people and a dog. Bear in mind he refuses to use a vacuum cleaner despite there being one, instead he always uses a dustpan and brush.

On Saturday morning I walked downstairs to use the shower to be greeted by the demand that I was to move out by the 19th February. I tried to reason with him and he appeared to have backtracked (he slurs his words to the extent that he is often completely unintelligible, especially when he’s angry). But on Sunday morning when I came down for breakfast he seemed to have flopped back to the intention of kicking me out on the 19th, “having spoken to his sister” (who does exist and doesn’t exactly seem nice either).

Thanks to all this I am now living in an Airbnb with half of my stuff in storage while I look for more suitable accommodation.

Content warning: harm to animals

I don’t think he is fit to be a landlord or to look after a dog. I witnessed him smacking his dog in the presence of his nephew, who must be around 13 years old.

Crikey, that’s very worrying. It sounds like you’ve done the right thing getting out of there. Also have you called the RSPCA or anything?

I plan to report him to the RSPCA using their online form in the next couple of days.

Btw if any one feels my post above is not appropriate, please feel free the raise the flag. There are clearly complex mental health issues at play with this guy and I partly feel this post does not fit the tone of the thread.

Nah, it’s fine - I don’t think you’ve intimated he’s deliberately being a prick, rather you’ve made pretty clear that your situation appears to be driven by something out of his control.

Take care of yourself!

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yeah as colinzeal says you haven’t done anything wrong here. ultimately you aren’t his caseworker, and you are paying him a lot of money to live in that property. if he isn’t prepared to seek help, or his sister isn’t prepared to act on these obvious warning signs, then you’re best off out of there. have had a similar experience where we tried to help the person but they didn’t want help. it was not remotely pleasant, escalated quite badly in fact, and it took us all a long time to get over it tbh.

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I’m sorry to hear that, and I appreciate your comments. It’s a difficult situation where you feel there are unaddressed mental health issues, but that you yourself don’t want to address his mental health issues head-on with the person or make it personal, bearing in mind the person is not family or a friend and is only someone you are paying in exchange for a product/service, compounded by the fact that they have a duty of care over you (somewhat) as a tenant. He was never upfront about the personal issues he was having, it was something we had to piece together over many months.

His sister didn’t seem concerned for us whatsoever and seemed to side with the landlord over any dispute, which definitely didn’t help.

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Maybe the sister is in denial about his issues - i mean the things he was accusing you of are quite believable of an inconsiderate tennant if that’s what he was telling her. If you’ve got her contact details or can find her on facebook, now that you’ve moved out, maybe it would be worth sending her a very neutrally worded message to say that his behaviour was concerning and he appears to be suffering from delusions and she may want to try to talk to him about getting some help.

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yeah this was my experience too, pretty much. you feel really guilty, but this and having your own life and problems can become its own source of stress. sometimes there’s nothing to be done i guess, it really sucks all round.

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Unfortunately I don’t know her name (first or surname) and have no way of contacting her. She never introduced herself to me or spoke to me once. She would visit sometimes and I would give a polite “hi” but she would just smile and walk past me and talk to the landlord. If she had made an effort to at least acknowledge my existance I might have had the opportunity to raise concerns about her brother (this may be the possible denial you rightfully point out). Also it would have been very difficult to talk to her about this in the house as her brother was always close by. I feel like I’m just making more excuses here but it would have been very difficult to talk to her as I only saw her briefly maybe 4 or 5 times as she would visit during the day while I was at work. She was the only person I saw visit.

Sorry I don’t mean to sound dismissive about your comments and advice but the factors described above just add to the frustration of the situation. Would it be worth messaging the landlord about these MH issues? Could I possibly be putting the other tenants’ safety at risk by doing so? They are both students and on the day I left I explained to them my concerns about the landlord and why I’m leaving and stressed to them to speak to their university if they ever feel unsafe and that their university can put them in emergency accommodation if needs be. They also recognise the landlord has these sort of problems, the other guy shares many of the same experiences as me.

Don’t blame yourself for not being able to contact his sister.

Regarding messaging the landlord directly, i’m not sure but maybe there are mh charities that have published advice on what to do if you’re worried someone is having delusions?

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I had a quick look earlier when reading about psychosis (mind.org.uk I think it was) but will continue to look in my free time.

There are, but most are primarily focused on you helping as a friend or family rather than someone you don’t know well. :frowning:

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This. Also the guy is somewhat of a recluse and doesn’t have a job or another situation where he will regularly come into contact with other people. It seems like it’s basically his sister and us tenants

I got an email yesterday from the agency who manage my flat back home. The tenant has been a textbook dream tenant - 3 repair requests, all entirely valid, looks after the place properly, pays his rent on time.

There’s been zero change in the cost of owning the place too. So what have the agency suggested? A 5% rent hike. Based on… markets, I guess? Their 10% cut of said increase has nothing to do with it, I’m sure. Told them that if the dude wants to stay there then the rent stays the same. For the grand task of Changing Nothing, they want 150 quid from me to extend the agreement (god only knows how much they’re going to ask him for).

absolute fucking parasites.