Whoever does the PR for the âscientistsâ publishing this report deserves a raise, as itâs been absolutely everywhere, despite it mainly being a load of tosh.
I send suggestive emojis to absolutely everyone for mad bants and would be horrified/extremely put off if anyone I dated got upset about me sending aubergine emojis. Like I literally send them to my parents when itâs in context. I guess it depends on the person but still, wha?
All depends doesnât it. You can like an exâs Instagram picture and it can have zero meaning beyond two friends keeping in touch. But if youâre doing it because youâre engaging in some sort of emotional connection that youâre secretly seeking outside of your monogamous relationship, then yeah, itâs a kind of cheating.
Trying to imagine how a conversation involving one person accusing the other of micro-cheating would go. I expect both parties would get very angry very quickly.
How would i know what she was texting anyone unless i was insecure and checked? For that to happen the whole relationship would be a bit of a sham. Iâd consider her private message her business.
It might go badly because it has a stupid name, but if you thought your partner was obsessively stalking someone else on social media, sending them flirty messages, exchanging sexy pics etc, then I can understand why you might be concerned.
before doing something, consider this: would you be happy to tell your partner what youâre doing? if not have you specifically said itâs ok to do but you wonât be discussing it?
by âhappy toâ i donât mean that have to or should do, i mean how would you feel about it
if youâre not comfortable talking about it with your partner, maybe you shouldnât be doing it⌠and if you shouldnât be doing it it might be cheating
open relationships are of course a very complicated point relating to this, thus my âhave you said you wonât be discussing itâ caveat