Whilst I think thatās possible in theory, and speaking from my own relationship, Iām not sure it would have zero meaning for your partner
In most cases iād consider a clean break when a relationship ends a good idea, sureā¦if i knew my partner was exchanging those sort of texts, sure, it may make me question the relationship a littleā¦but how would i know? How does anyone know?
Everyone is different, I guess itās just a matter of trust. My wife and I have both remained friends with people weāve been involved with before, itās never been an issue for us.
I canāt remember ever asking someone whoās rang or text them, at any point, ever. That thought process just isnāt a thing thatās ever happened.
Going to start accusing people of āmicro-ā stuff all the time. This thread is basically micro-trolling.
I honestly donāt think that. Maybe itās more to do with knowingly putting your partner in that situation, where you expect them to appreciate it for what it isāmaintaining a relationship with your ex as you parted on good terms.
the relationship may still be healthy if youāre trying to look out for each otherās feelings
Maybe some people are just better at gauging the seriousness of the relationship. If iām sure itās serious that sort of suspicion isnāt there, if it is then that effects your feelings and ultimately how much youāre bothered by potential circumstances.
Think this is a pretty good take wiggs. The minute youāre acting from a place of dishonesty youāre on dodgy ground, and you know it.
Yeh, and I didnāt mean to pursue this from a hetero-normative monogamous perspective either.
Just for your FYI everyone
Nah
Itās a tough job but someoneās got to do it, eh?
Thatās because they use a different OS and they know that within 5 seconds their partner is going to be swearing at Apple/Google not designing stuff in EXACTLY the same way theyāre used to.
Not knowing the passcode to your partnerās phone
- weird
- not weird
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Yeah, Mrs HYG knows my phone password and I donāt think thereās anything she could find that Iād care if she sawā¦ nothing cheating wise at least, maybe just some messages to mates where Iām blowing off steam about her making a mess of the kitchen.
I know my girlfriends but itās only for car Spotify
And vice versa
I tend to ask people who theyāre texting out of nosiness rather than paranoia
I am confused. The double negative is confusing. Youāre all saying that itās NOT weird to NOT know your partnerās passcode. So it is weird that you do know it?
la-di-da
This has creased me up.