#23

:thinking:

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#24

Whilst I think that’s possible in theory, and speaking from my own relationship, I’m not sure it would have zero meaning for your partner

#26

In most cases i’d consider a clean break when a relationship ends a good idea, sure…if i knew my partner was exchanging those sort of texts, sure, it may make me question the relationship a little…but how would i know? How does anyone know?

#27

Interacting with anyone hotter and funnier than me

#30

Everyone is different, I guess it’s just a matter of trust. My wife and I have both remained friends with people we’ve been involved with before, it’s never been an issue for us.

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#32

I can’t remember ever asking someone who’s rang or text them, at any point, ever. That thought process just isn’t a thing that’s ever happened.

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#33

Going to start accusing people of “micro-” stuff all the time. This thread is basically micro-trolling.

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#35

I honestly don’t think that. Maybe it’s more to do with knowingly putting your partner in that situation, where you expect them to appreciate it for what it is—maintaining a relationship with your ex as you parted on good terms.

the relationship may still be healthy if you’re trying to look out for each other’s feelings

#36

Maybe some people are just better at gauging the seriousness of the relationship. If i’m sure it’s serious that sort of suspicion isn’t there, if it is then that effects your feelings and ultimately how much you’re bothered by potential circumstances.

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#38

Think this is a pretty good take wiggs. The minute you’re acting from a place of dishonesty you’re on dodgy ground, and you know it.

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#39

Yeh, and I didn’t mean to pursue this from a hetero-normative monogamous perspective either.

Just for your FYI everyone

#40

Nah

#41

It’s a tough job but someone’s got to do it, eh?

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#43

That’s because they use a different OS and they know that within 5 seconds their partner is going to be swearing at Apple/Google not designing stuff in EXACTLY the same way they’re used to.

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#44

Not knowing the passcode to your partner’s phone

  • weird
  • not weird

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#46

Yeah, Mrs HYG knows my phone password and I don’t think there’s anything she could find that I’d care if she saw… nothing cheating wise at least, maybe just some messages to mates where I’m blowing off steam about her making a mess of the kitchen.

#47

I know my girlfriends but it’s only for car Spotify

And vice versa

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#49

I tend to ask people who they’re texting out of nosiness rather than paranoia

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#50

I am confused. The double negative is confusing. You’re all saying that it’s NOT weird to NOT know your partner’s passcode. So it is weird that you do know it?

#51

la-di-da