If you want your profile picture and embarrassing first messages to be shared on Instagram/other social media, try tinder.
Good place to find people who are shallow, self centred, vain and emotionally unavailable. You can probably get a few lays.
Okc is good for occasionally finding decent humans on, and is less regimented than tinder, however if you are in a city it is very busy and difficult to stand out (for a guy).
The current dating culture is like people are playing a popularity game. Get a date every week, completely separate yourself from reality while offering nothing to the opposite sex, set unreasonable expectations and just keep doing that until everyone leaves the dating site ship.
I’ve quit online dating entirely and will seek other avenues when I’ve got the time.