i get more and more disillusioned with it over time. like thereās a handful of people (mostly DiSers, i think) who i have genuine interactions with or who respond to you, but mostly youāre just talking to yourself. even when you post something interesting or funny tumbleweed.
it sounds very bitter and sad to say but i do think thereās an element of cliquery on there thatās been re-inforced over time. when i first started using it i got the sense that people were more open and you could make/develop friendships on there. maybe itās because of all the abusive dicks on there but now everyoneās very closed off and āyouāre not in my clique, why are you @ ing me?ā