When people say something like “Its both a positive AND a negative” - yes, I can comprehend that there’ll be good and bad and shades of in between to most decisions. I get it. You’re not some omnipotent being that has to boil it down for me because I’m a dribbling imbecile. Stop it.
When people say “absolutely” before advice, like “you absolutely you should go on holiday” or whatever. Makes my skin crawl. When did this start?! It needs to stop.