#41

“If you’re only engaged, or going out (not forgetting),
Don’t bother coming to our fucking wedding.”

#42

space and/or cost.

Limited seating/funds for wedding breakfast

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#43

bollocks.

Love a good wedding.

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#44

I’d be delighted. Saves me from having to come up with an excuse.

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#45

not really a sofia coppola fan

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#46

who is getting married here?

#47

remember a thread (might have been off mumsnet?) where someone had invited a load of people but then realised it was quite expensive so were de-inviting people.

AIBU? YABU. great bants.

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#48

Dkwta,p.

#49

I have never heard of this.

Are we seriously saying only married couples get invited to weddings?

#50

ignore me

(in before I always do etc)

#51

oh no

#52

no woman no cry

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#53

To be fair it would be pretty difficult to reach completion solo without thumbs

#54

out of interest, if a friend had a partner who you’d never met (say the friend moved abroad and met them there, for e.g.) you’re about to get married, how long would they have had to be together for the partner to get an invite:

  • a day for all I care, it’s a plus one, fill your boots
  • 6 months+
  • 1 year+
  • 2 years+
  • 5 years+
  • No ring, nob ring

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#55

what you mean? like “you’ve only known x for 3 months, they can’t come to the wedding” ?

that’s mental. you can’t put conditions on a +1

#56

Beyonces first draft needed work…did it type it first I didn’t want to waste time checking!

#57

I invited my mate Ben, alone, because he’d only been with his lady a few weeks and I had no idea who she was. He replied saying they could both come.

Fuckers.

#58

surely in this scenario, by the time the wedding comes around 6-12 months down the line, you’ll have met her and it’ll be strange that she’s not there?*

*assuming he hasn’t binned her off in the interim

#59

Nope. Saw him at the stag, next time I saw him was at the wedding – about 3 months after invites went out. Met her, thought she was weird.

Also, she kept skipping songs in the playlist. Who does that? Like, once they’d started she’d skip them, at my wedding, in the playlist me and ex MrsMister had spent ages putting together.

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#60

That’s fucking deviant behaviour. I would’ve been pretty close to kicking her out tbh

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