Yeah I struggle with it a lot, because lots of my closest friends from university have gone on similar journeys where they as they’ve got older and bought houses and shit they’ve definitely started drifting rightward. Not in a scary fash way - they’d all support gay marriage, they have BAME friends, are pro-choice etc - would socially, in culture war terms, be seen as liberal (and most of them were passionate remainers). But when it comes down to the nitty gritty, I suspect I wouldn’t like to hear their real views on benefits, or immigration. And none of them like Corbyn. Part of the reason I love DiS is that it reassures me there are people out there who share my views and I can talk about this stuff.
Should say obvs the incident I mentioned above was properly gross and I shouldn’t have let it slide like I did. I haven’t seen him again since, but then again we don’t see other often anyway.
Will probably see him again at a friend’s Christmas party, where last year I ended up on the balcony drunkenly arguing for full Communism with some awful City lawyer 