you can’t hang out with without making plans with fucking ages in advance. couple of mates i know if i asked them if they fancied a beer, they’d suggest an evening in like three weeks’ time. someone has just asked if the wife and i want to do something really low key in early May. yeah sure, hit me up late April yeah?
Most of my friends are like this. Pretty depressing tbh because they fill their calendars, and then if they haven’t got something planned that involves you then it’s kind of just ‘tough shit’, which is a shame. Also makes you feel like ‘wtf? why isn’t my calendar full like that?’
Generally miss being impulsive and being like ‘Hey wanna do something?’ on the same day.
I just like to be able to give people an answer when they invite me to something, and I also feel really bad about cancelling for something else, even if it’s something I might enjoy more, so once it’s in the diary, it’s fixed.