Yeah I can’t deal with this. There’s a reason it’s called an “inner” monologue, you fucking lemon.

I recently got stuck near a load of stoopid kids who wouldn’t stop talking on a really long train journey. They were going crazy as there were no sockets for their iPads and sounded like the kids from Outnumbered but even less funny. Just wanted to read but couldn’t concentrate. I’m properly turning into a grumpy old man

I’m comfortable with silence but my mum really isn’t so when this happens at family gatherings, my mum will fill the space with uhms and ahhs and little giggles. Like if we’ve all been laughing about something then the conversations and laughs ends, she then continues to giggle a bit then goes ahhhhh then will giggle a little bit more then go ahhh and we’re all like she is fucking insane and then i say stop filling the space and she’ll go ooh and giggle and then aaahh some more and it can go on for about 20 minutes if I tried.

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:grinning:

Reminds me of this:

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This is exactly what it’s like.

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Do you nod politely like you’re super into the stories?

I quite like people who talk lots because it means I don’t have to.

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My Pop is a bit of a narcissist so hijacks every conversation and then wallows in the most unnecessary details for his own pleasure, much to everyone else’s chagrin. It can be really insensitive sometimes if someone’s trying to say something important. So as a result of being on the sidelines and watching this unfold so often, I make damn sure I don’t do the same.

No, I turn around and get on with my work. He doesn’t seem to notice that I am doing my best to ignore him. Though other colleagues laugh at me rolling my eyes at him.

YOU DON’T HAVE TO EITHER WAY THAT IS THE POINT

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I like peace and quiet.

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True true. The next time I’m sat in the pub with one other person and can’t be arsed talking I might just make no effort and see what happens :slight_smile:

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Mrs Fox’s family continue chatting away continuously during meals too.
“You aren’t saying much…’
'Well, no… I’m trying to eat my dinner”.

Went round recently and they had her sister on loudspeaker on the phone while we were having dinner. Fucks sake.

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Unbearable.

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Dinner?

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This reminds me of that story about your date with the fish lady. It would appear you can’t handle awkward silences either.

Not on a first date.

I might have missed out on a blissful life there, true enough.

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When I lived in Spain, the other teachers thought I was rude because of how little I spoke because I was nervous. It was really hard.

I like it
Especially when they’re really warm and friendly and don’t even notice how anxious you are
Think me and my gf talk a quite similar amount when we’re together but with other people she talks about 10x more than I do. it’s good

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