Personally and I can obviously only speak for myself, but for every good time Iāve had in a pub Iāve had 8 average or boring ones and 2 bad ones.
For every nice person Iāve spoken to in a pub Iāve spoken to twice as many lairy lads, had to sit through peopleās bad opinions on immigration, taxation, misogyny, etc.
Been forced to carry on drinking way past when I want to because ācome on one more drink!ā and Iām not a fun drunk when I get too drunk but my impulse control isnāt great so I donāt like being put in this situation.
Hate that the pub and more drinking is the thing you do when you are English, they are often dingy and badly lit, smell of cigarettes, plenty of people you see there who look totally hopeless and are only there through a sense of inertia, probably spent 40 years hanging around with the same people they have nothing in common with because itās a pub and thatās what you do.
The odd pint in a random pub on a day out can be very nice but I honestly hope I never have a night out at a pub again.