anyway, I’ve got a stag do on the horizon and the madness has started already.
signed up for facebook messenger like a true friend. (with some other cunts login) bored already. should I be bored? probably not
called my friend the other day with unrelated query. chat soon went onto the stag. he said he didn’t know what to do. told him it was his day, so it’s his decision. told him he needs to be assertive on this one.
ANYWAY, next thing, his WIFE-TO-BE is on the phone! I kid you not. starts chipping in with suggestions, in her oh-so bullying way. I was half-seeing this girl way back and I am fully aware of her busy-body nature. used to work with her as well and she’d always be telling me what to do! yep…one of those
so - thoughts on the fiance getting involved? no real issue myself, but you may see things differently. bit cheeky though innit? or is it? again, I’m not saying it is. should she be concentrating solely on the hen bash? dunno. why does she always stick her beak in? not sure. am I glad our ‘thing’ didn’t go further? fucking course I am!
Dunno man, it’s up to them innit really. Maybe he wants her to get involved to keep things from getting too out of hand maybe but in a way that doesn’t get him any heat?
Might be that you’ll find he’s been sticking his beak into the hen arrangements as well maybe? Gonna need more info on this one I think…
all fair points, but man oh man, this chick can’t help but stick her beak in. my man is mr mellow and just goes with the flow, so perhaps it’s the perfect match. dunno
Re: the WTB getting involved, obvs depends on the character of the couple. My FWTBNW (former wife-to-be now wife) was a source of many ideas for my stag when I was worrying about it. But that’s because I was dithering and wanted the input, so IDK.
They can be pretty stressful for what should be a fun occasion, eh?
Literally can’t think of anything worse than going on a stag do t̶h̶a̶t̶ ̶w̶a̶s̶ ̶o̶r̶g̶a̶n̶i̶s̶e̶d̶ ̶b̶y̶ ̶s̶o̶m̶e̶o̶n̶e̶ ̶o̶t̶h̶e̶r̶ ̶t̶h̶a̶n̶ ̶m̶y̶s̶e̶l̶f̶.̶
anyway, I’ve sown some beautiful seeds. suggesting we hire out a cabin in the middle of nowhere and do cool stuff like rustlin’ horses, firing arrows at trees, ripping shit up in country pubs and smoking doobies til our eyes fall out.
As you may be aware I attended the county show yesterday… there they had a bow and arrow thing where you shoot arrows with big soft ends(!). You can do it as a paintballing type thing. I’m not into paintballing at all but this could be fun. Maybe?