someone’s asking for recommendations of what to do in New York. Find it really annoying that loads of people are piling in trying to hook them up with people they know. Like, the repliers don’t care if the OP and their mates meet up with each other or not (they definitely won’t - the OP has stated about four times now that she doesn’t need a place to stay etc), they just want everyone to know they have mates in NYC. One person just posted “in case of emergency, contact my cousin [name], age 80, [full address and phone number]”. As if she’s gonna do that in an emergency?