#72

don’t worry it’s quite easy for me to imagine you being a better person than me

#73

Hello Hardcore History

#74

Sorry that came out a bit harsh/blunt.
I am not very good at words.

#75

well he’s definitely a wanker isn’t he

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#76

That’s not what I am trying to say at all though, Bam.

#77

I guess there’s an interesting discussion to be had about the role of hate and what it means to hate something constructively

#78

also no need to apologise to me

#79

Didn’t you already make a thread for this kind of thing?

#81

I did not know this!
I do think that stigma would still exist even if it was legalised. It’s been (quite rightly) absolutely drummed into us all how terrible heroin is, hasn’t it?

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#82

Bamnan,

Playing tennis, cutting the grass, playing music, laughing, playing PC games: I guess (like pretty much anything anyone does) you could do these things in a way that would cause others harm - but none of these things are bad things in themselves. I don’t like you referring to yourself as a bad person as I don’t think you’re bad. Maybe we see you differently from how you see yourself.

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#83

Yup.
I want Bamnan to let himself enjoy things and embrace feeling happy when he does because he’s a beautiful human being worthy and deserving of love and joy.

That sounds super cheesey but fuck it.

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#84

yeah, I guess I should add making threads to this list

#85

big disappointed that I’ve already gone through all the things I like

#86

Walks and baths?

#87

good point

#88

i’ve decided that threads like this aren’t healthy tbh

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#89

baths probably my favourite activity and just puts me in a relaxed state of mind where I feel like the world can’t get me. On the other hand it’s a huge waste of water to have as many baths as I have so is bad for the environment. Showers just aren’t the same

#90

I really don’t think I should have come back onto DiS after my break, something in my brain broke :frowning:

#91

Walks are great aren’t they? On nice days I sometimes get off my train and walk further than I need to because it’s good to get out and take some calm exercise.

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#92

this is what happens when you try to make a change, change isn’t always healthy. Sometimes you should just stay in your routine where it is safe