This is the thing that I find most difficult about even the really good mixes - Giles Martin’s recent work for example, which is generally fantastic - but the drum kit often sounds like it’s sitting in the corner of the room, and not in a good way.
One of those situations where having a super-modern single-speaker setup (e.g. sonos, google home etc) actually suits the music better.
This is a super-dumb question reading it back but when you listen to a mono mix on headphones, do you simply get the same mix in both ears? Does that not sound kind of weird?