Not on Tinder (book etc) but I was recommended this app Bumble and I’ve been trying to get my head round it for the last couple of weeks.
It sounds like its basically the same as Tinder but if you get a match, its up to the girl to start the conversation within 24 hours. If a conversation isn’t started then the match is lost.
I’ve had the odd match and chatted with a few but I’m already starting to find the process tiresome and a bit surreal.
I’ve swiped left when I’ve come across anyone that I already know. I still live in the same town I grew up in so its usually people I haven’t spoke to in years or people from school who I’d rather not reconnect with.