#132

i read in another thread that theo picks them, ignore my question guys

#133

Ah, no, this was a few months ago in another thread. Can’t remember the details fully, but yeah, it was in the interest of bants.

#134

also would like to say I know I have said hurtful things to people on here in the past and I hope if it has been brought up I have made a genuine apology and there’s no ill feeling but if anyone feels upset by something I’ve said to them in the past, if you want to PM me I will definitely take it seriously and wouldn’t get defensive or condone anything.

Equally, if it’s necessary to a topic at hand and I am being a hypocrite over past behaviour by all means bring this up in public.

Lastly sorry for arguing so much on the boards over the last 6 months or so, I have probably been losing sight of upsetting some people when I am focusing on a specific point. I know I have contributed to some of the hostility and tense feeling around here recently and will try harder to improve my posting style and appropriateness.

Thanks x

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#135

I mean I don’t read all of your posts Bam but I’m not sure you’ve ever argued?

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#136

hah! Probably not well anyway! :slight_smile:

#137

:flushed: :gun:

:wink:

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#139

don’t get me started, that actually sounds interesting! :zipper_mouth_face:

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#141

Save it for the filth thread!

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#142

Or whether Colin Kaepernick has sold out.

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#145

Can we just leave the snark out of this thread please? :slight_smile:

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#146

Reckon there’s an inevitability to reading people’s posts a certain way. Like when you’ve met someone irl or spoken to them online regularly or about more personal issues you’re going to give them a bit more leeway and maybe project your ideas of who they are onto what they post (not disagreeing with you, just fleshing out I guess)

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#148

Deletions are all logged. It’s visible to Admins and maybe moderators. I can probably pull out what you want to know about from there.

#149

Still can’t believe we’ve not been at the same meet at the same time yet. O’sheas?

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#150

you still get the old style pass agg posts directed at other users too. it’s quite hard to explain what i mean, i’m sure lots of people know it when they’re the target of it tho. 9/10 times it’s not worth bringing up because you’ll just look paranoid, but it is there.

roughly goes: pass agg comment 1 that is not a direct reply to a user but is aimed at them >> like by pass agg poster’s mate >> user’s mate makes pass agg comment 2 >>> multiple likes on that comment.

if you get me.

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#153

Classic example is CG when we first started binning him off - some users at the time backed him on the basis of “but I know him IRL - he’s nothing like this really” without appreciating to those of us who never have, he was just a troll who gloried in being a dick and occasionally posting lighthearted racism.

#154

The deletion in question by me was @ghostpony’s post about why she couldn’t find that thread. At the time I figured it was better to stop discussion as it seemed like it was going to stir up more noise so I deleted her and my reply and sent her the link as a PM.

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#155

I’m working on it, ffs

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#156

an “@ them you coward” button would be pretty great tbh

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#157

Well go on then, @ them you cowards!

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#158

Because they have too much time on their hands, clearly.